Connection
January 2, 2024
We cannot grow spiritually without being connected. Some of our connections with other people are deeper than with most of our friends.
A deep connection to another person is a rare type of intimacy. There are only so many people we trust with our deep feelings and vulnerabilities. These special people understand and do not judge us, so we openly share things we would never discuss with other friends. The connection to these friends is deep and solid.
Without such connections, we would have to bear our struggles, dreams, and weaknesses alone. We are rarely capable of seeing ourselves objectively with love. But our closest friends can. Such beautiful relationships include the following understandings between us and the other person:
We and our intimate friends work out our differences because the relationship is priceless and will not be tossed away by either of us.
Our intimate friends listen and hold a healing space when we are hurt.
When we need something, our friend gives it to us without question or the assumption of reciprocity.
When a project is to be completed, intimate friends enthusiastically lend their support.
Our intimate friends understand and honor our unique nature and circumstances.
Our intimate friends are transparent about their feelings and their true nature, and we feel free to be the same with them.
When we are low or fearful, our intimate friends supply the strength and faith required to believe in ourselves and walk through our challenges.
Our intimate friends are not envious of us but genuinely experience the joys and celebrations of our lives.
Our intimate friends use their power to protect and help us when we are down or helpless.
Inquiry: Do your intimate friendships include any of the characteristics above?
Dear God,
Make me worthy of those who are so intimately involved in my life. Amen
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