Dr. Howell’s Reflections
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Learning
January 17, 2024
Ego Type Ones learn spiritually by seeing themselves as works in progress instead of as being right and perfect. They switch to seeing themselves as works in progress by returning to their essence of hopefulness and optimism. Unchecked Ego Type Ones cannot learn spiritually if they think they are already perfect. When we monitor others to ensure they are doing the right thing, it is difficult to focus on our own liabilities.
Learning
January 16, 2024
Ego Type Nines optimize their spiritual learning by first believing in their preciousness instead of debasing themselves. With healthy self-love, they come into their own with a voice that helps them interact with others instead of blending in with them to avoid conflict. Their healthy self-worth spurs curiosity, self-respect, interaction, inquiry, and exchange of information and experiences.
Learning
January 15, 2024
The ego is a part of our entire being; therefore, though it is a mental structure, it is part of our wholeness and complete soul. Some of our most tremendous suffering is caused by the ego, which wants to override our higher self to move us through the world in the way it seems is best for us. However, the ego's way is not the best because, as a mental structure, it cannot achieve the peace and soul satisfaction we seek.
Learning
January 14, 2024
We learn from our body’s messages that alert us and help us understand our needs, fears, and desires. When we are hungry, it lets us know by a growling stomach. If we are sick, it gives us fever and pain. When we are scared, it gives us goose pimples or raises the hairs on the backs of our necks. When we are desirous of affection, our body reaches out for touch.
Learning
January 13, 2024
You may have heard or said the expression, "I know it by heart." Like a poem, piece of music, or a recipe, we do not require a book, teacher, or written recipe, because we know that thing by heart. It is deeply within us and occupies a place in our hearts because our hearts receive that information and keep it.
Learning
January 12, 2024
Spiritual learning does not depend on our Intelligence Quotient. Being cognitively adept at perceiving, synthesizing, storing, and utilizing information is a wonderful capacity without which the world would not have advanced in medicine, technology, and all the integral fields that depend on cognitive ability. Yet, we cannot rely solely on our intellects.
Beginnings
January 10, 2024
According to holy scripture, our origin is in the Divine. There are vast implications to having divine origins. But have you ever stopped to think about yourself as divine? If we acknowledge our divine origin, we must accept our divine qualities, and all of us have them.
Beginnings
January 9, 2024
We may hesitate to apply a spiritual approach to our circumstances and relationships because we are so comfortable with our "normal" way of handling these. To begin a new spiritual approach is scary because there will be great regrets if we fail. But if we muster up the strength and courage to apply our spiritual teaching, we are on the road to a new beginning at a higher level of consciousness.
Beginnings
January 8, 2024
In soul work, we continuously begin again by shedding the old and embracing the new. So, we move through the world in a self-renewing spiritual temple. Many old things that used to serve and protect us are no longer needed because, through spiritual work, newer ideas and understandings replace them.
Beginnings
January 7, 2024
Beginning impressions usually stay in our minds. For example, I recall meeting my first friend, Freddie, when we were five. After our friendship had been going on for years, we often talked about how we met while riding our bikes in the neighborhood.
Beginnings
January 6, 2024
It is hard to begin again when we are met with failure or defeat each time we start. After so many tries, many of us give up and do not begin again. When I think of how hard it is to begin again, I am reminded of "IF," the famous poem by Rudyard Kipling (1865-1936). One line in the second stanza is of particular importance:
Beginnings
January 5, 2024
Typically, new beginnings elicit a lot of excitement. The honeymoon phase fascinates us with all the possibilities of what the activity will do for us. But in time, negative facets emerge that kill our enthusiasm. We realize that we do not desire the activity enough to continue.
Connection
January 4, 2024
The spiritual life calls us to become conscious of everything we do daily. However, that is a tricky proposition because our egos rely on their strategies rather than primarily on the soul's presence, faith, and trust. We know our egos are essential in moving us through the world, but in becoming conscious, we resist its wholesale control of our being. The ego's thoughts can lead us on a dark collision course.
Connection
January 3, 2024
There are times when I have trouble feeling my connection to the Divine. Something heavy worries me, an outlook seems bleak, or an uncertainty looms that disconnects me from the God within. It's a hopelessness that seems to smother me.
Connection
January 2, 2024
A deep connection to another person is a rare type of intimacy. There are only so many people we trust with our deep feelings and vulnerabilities. These special people understand and do not judge us, so we openly share things we would never discuss with other friends. The connection to these friends is deep and solid.
Beginnings
January 1, 2024
The new year of 2024 calls us to begin anew. The old is gone, and the new is here. So, how do we consciously embark on the next twelve months? The Enneagram of Soul gives us a perfect map with which to approach the new year:
Connection
December 31, 2023
Though Donne lived in a different era, his poem speaks to this timeless truth: none of us exists in a bubble; we are all connected. But instead of living in this awareness, we tend to live only in our immediate emotional, mental, or physical "proximity."